Anger Over Mom Who Sent Adopted Boy Back to Russia - ABC News
Now, as America goes, it truly is a mixed bag. You have your geeks and your freaks, your stoners, your pushers, your rednecks, dirtbags, douchebuckets and twat nozzles... which goes without saying. And sometimes, said twat nozzles sometimes masquerade as decent folks... which, normally enough, everyone who knows about them, shakes their head in a knowing fashion. And precedes to "not be surprised" when they fuck up.
Sometimes, however, said twat nozzle trips over their own feet. And screw up in a BIG WAY. And manage to piss off a foreign government in a quite spectacular fashion in the process. And not only that, but screw life up for everyone else in the process. Not many twat nozzles would have the balls to ship their own adopted children back to their country of birth "because they couldn't deal with them."
Now, don't get me wrong. Synapse has two children that he informally adopted, as their original parent is dead. They fight, they don't do as they are told, they avoid chores like the plague. The boy played with matches and made several overtures toward burning down the house. I say overtures, because I'm not sure they are deliberated attempts. Until I drove him past the burnt out wreck of a building that my old fire department fought a four alarm blaze at a couple years prior. Needless to say he doesn't do that anymore. Even on medication he is a mixed bag. Upon hearing the teacher complain about the son cheating on a spelling test, ol Synapse looked her in the eye and disgustedly exclaimed "At least he was able to concentrate being he was on his medication and all..."
Don't get me wrong. I fantasize all the time about putting these two on a plane to some out of the way place. Or in a corn field somewhere. Hell, even leaving them with a babysitter for a few hours would be great. But... I don't do it. Neither would any sane parent, to be honest.
So what the hell really happened.
Look up Reactional Attachment Disorder. Russian orphanages are NOT fun places to be. In fact, a lot of the time the children inhabiting them are so fucked up they couldn't tell their ass from their elbow. Take one such orphan, fly him to a FOREIGN FUCKING COUNTRY, take him from an environment where they don't touch you or look you in the eye and put him in one where people tell you what to do and are in your face and guess what happens?
They go ape fucking shit.
What went on in this household? Where was a father in all of this? Where were the adoption workers? Where were the cops? We simply don't know. But to blame the adoptive mother solely, is to ignore the other half of the problem: the way Russian kids are treated in these orphanages. The way adoption workers lie to cover up the problems solely to get rid of these kids. The way that they don't genereally allow healthy Russian kids out of the country. The way that they black market these "defective" kids for foreign adoption for profit.
But blaming Russia too doesn't even cover the whole equation. Who's at fault? Everyone who says "Oh look at my baby from Russia!" "Look at my baby from China"! "Look at my baby from Timbuktu". You idiots willing to spend $45,000 on an adoption and enrich these child sellers, then turn around and bitch when the kid has problems later, look in the mirror for the source of the problem: YOU. YOU ARE A FUCKING MORON. That isn't a dog or a cat its a fucking KID and when you signed the dotted line you took responsibility not only for the kid but for the fact that this sad travesty of a child abusing moronic system will continue because YOU SUBSIDIZED IT. There's a word for you. It's called SUCKER.
If anyone is well-versed in the art of turd polishing, its the Russians. However, it IS possible to outsmart them at their own game, its called NOT PLAYING.
I'm reminded of a time, 11 years ago, where a friend of mine lost his house and a Russian family moved in. I befriended them, they were nice, if not a little weird, the man liked to stand out in the freezing cold in boxer shorts, no lie. Somehow they decided I was the perfect free babysitter for their two year old.
After about 2 cokes, 5 cookies, 10 pieces of candy, a bag of M&M's, and a shitload of koolaid and coca cola later, little Babyski was so junked up and so sugar-high, he was literally bouncing off the walls... His mother never did bring him over and drop him off after that... hehehehehe.
There is only one smart thing to do: NOT TO PLAY. And while you are raining down your wrath upon the Twat Nozzle, (what she did was fucked up, but better than killing him outright...) just remember... if you think with your heart to the exclusion of your head, its easy for someone to play you as a sucker.
Then it could be YOU in the headlines that everyone is hating upon because your desperation drove you to dumb stupidity.
After all, most parents don't send their kids to Moscow... they just send the little darlings to bed.
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